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Let it go

A friend of mine emailed me this the other day.  I’d never come across it before, but I love the wisdom contained in it so much I just had to post it. 

The intro is fairly focussed on relationships, but the wisdom can apply to any aspect of your life.  And the advice in the second half does touch on alot….. 

 by T. D. Jakes

 There are people who can walk away from you.

 And hear me when I tell you this! When people can walk away from you: let them walk. I don’t want you to try to talk another person into staying with you, loving you, calling you, caring about you, coming to see you, staying attached to you. I mean hang up the phone.

When people can walk away from you let them walk. Your destiny is never tied to anybody that left.

The bible said that, they came out from us that it might be made manifest that they were not for us. For had they been of us, no doubt they would have continued with us. [1 John 2:19]

People leave you because they are not joined to you. And if they are not joined to you, you can’t make them stay.

Let them go.

And it doesn’t mean that they are a bad person it just means that their part in the story is over. And you’ve got to know when people’s part in your story is over so that you don’t keep trying to raise the dead.. You’ve got to know when it’s dead.

You’ve got to know when it’s over. Let me tell you something.. I’ve got the gift of good-bye. It’s the tenth spiritual gift, I believe in good-bye.. It’s not that I’m hateful, it’s that I’m faithful, and I know whatever God means for me to have He’ll give it to me. And if it takes too much sweat I don’t need it. Stop begging people to stay.

Let them go!!

If you are holding on to something that doesn’t belong to you and was never intended for your life, then you need to…… LET IT GO!!!

If you are holding on to past hurts and pains ……. LET IT GO!!!

If someone can’t treat you right, love you back, and see your worth…… LET IT GO!!!

If someone has angered you…. LET IT GO!!!

If you are holding on to some thoughts of evil and revenge…… LET IT GO!!!

If you are involved in a wrong relationship or addiction…… LET IT GO!!!

If you are holding on to a job that no longer meets your needs or talents……. LET IT GO!!!

If you have a bad attitude…… LET IT GO!!!

If you keep judging others to make yourself feel better……  LET IT GO!!!

 If you’re stuck in the past and God is trying to take you to a new level in Him………  LET IT GO!!!

 If you are struggling with the healing of a broken relationship……  LET IT GO!!!

 If you keep trying to help someone who won’t even try to help themselves……  LET IT GO!!!

 If you’re feeling depressed and stressed …………  LET IT GO!!!

 If there is a particular situation that you are so used to handling yourself and God is saying ‘take your hands off of it,’ then you need to…….  LET IT GO!!!

 ‘The Battle is the Lord’s!’


I think it’s fair to say that all of us has at some point or another held onto something that was no longer serving us well.  And now is as good a time as any to ask yourself the question:  

is there anything that you need to let go??

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2 comments on “Let it go
  1. I like this poem (partial) that I put on the last page of my book:
    “To Let Go is not to care for, but to care about.
    To Let Go is not to fix, but to be supportive.
    To Let Go is not to judge, but to allow another to be a human being.
    To Let Go is not to be in the middle of arranging all outcomes, but to allow others to effect their own destinies.
    To Let Go is not to be protective, but to permit others to face reality.
    To Let Go is to fear less, and to love more.”
    ~Author unknown

  2. Hilda says:

    I love that Betsy, it’s perfect! Thanks for sharing it. :-)

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